But now I discovered that I gave everything to the wrong people. For me, it was to my defend my kids and anytime she went past the line of reason in punishing them, I was right there to invoke the one thing Librans are good at, utilizing and that is our rather sharp tongue. But that is a learned thing. but they need to recharge in order to keep it up or as i said before they will lash out. Things that does not warrant attention would end up being scrutinized and judged and harshest of words will be exchanged.its PATHETIC!!! Sylvia Sky (author) from USA on September 18, 2016: Chastity, this article is solely about Libra's dark side. I'm just dealing with a toxic one. I Definetly repress anger and am secretive. So.. (how do I express myself without sounding like a total Libra) I would love to discuss some of the points of this article just to shine light from the PERSONAL perspective not to justify our behaviour, not to disrespect other points of views, but just to try and explain. When they do express themselves, they tend to be very passionate and open-minded. This can be dangerous for Libra when it comes to relationships, as they tend to put the needs of their partner above their own, especially Libra men. Libras are all about relationships and balance and will go at any lengths to acheive this whether its making people feel sorry for them, misusing others for their own gain, exhibiting superficial emotions to have codependent relationships. Considering the importance of maintaining a good relationship with a Libra woman, we invite you to look through our article collection about how to have a healthy relationship with a Libra woman, as this will provide you with a host of tools to help you successfully navigate your relationship. Thinking nothing of it as that's how she is, she started laying it on thick, changing her tone in her texts and emojis (I only mention that bc they seem fascinated with the damn things). Emotional balance is so important to a Libra. Remember there are THREE sides to every story: yours, theirs, and the TRUTH. I, remember all the bad stuff anyone has ever done to me BUT i have a patience of a God. theyre usually really calm but i noticed how they cant tolerate stupidity if no ones watching theyll lash out probably useing really hurtful remarks. he is a great father and husband. Replytovengefulauthor on January 09, 2017: As someone that has done a lot of astrology reading I can admit I know some of these traits can be very true of a libra. Those born in the first week of October are prone to depression (saturn decan) due to their repressed emotions and hide it so well. Like you might know, Libras absolutely hate confrontation. The laziness, the controling, able to move from one relationship to another one. I have a stellium in libra sun moon mercury venus and they are all in the 12th house. Aries (March 21 April 19) "While Aries can be charmed by Libra for a while, one thing Aries can't stand is neediness," Monahan says. Some people agreeing with this in its whole has proven they know and strongly dislike a certain libra in their life, and have no reason to disagree because of the obvious pain THAT negative libra has caused. Lying from the little things to the big things, both white lies to black lies. None of this rings true for me and you should not say "even the best" this emplies EVERY SINGLE Libra thinks more of themselves than they think of you. Both can be very friendly, sweet, helpfulbut then they seem to turn on a dime. While I am now guilty of generalizing also, I have to say that I know that depending on the time one is born under the Libra sign, as well as at which day in October can all play a part in a Libra being the exception to the rule as far as whether they exhibit classic Libra traits. S-so libras stuff i didnt know. im sorry libras act like thisi havent acted like that but i guess that comes when you grow up im sorry AChandler78 Interesting and winded monologue just not sure if you believe your bs or just working tirelessly to convince us? i was a good kid. Libras love with a passion. There is a reason why they say Librans make good judges, its because we are able to take every situation or event and tear it down to it's nuts and bolts to see what's really within. Especially those of you who have been in relationships with 2 or 3 Libras in a row, are you crazy or just looking to make yourself miserable. The little trick Libra's use is saying "I heard that" when in fact they did NOT hear anything, they are the ones FALSELY promoting some "theory" (in their head} as if it is an "eye-witness" account. The man Libra is loyal and faithful when it comes to love relationships. So now every Libran is a bad parent? I apologize and we move on. Virgo Man Not Texting Back: What Do I Do? They will, only and only if it's required. Normally with a libra when they have a fight with a friend they think they cant trust anyone but when the tears stop they over think and the tears come back but its best to let them be and most likely they will forgive you after and it might become a cycle that they cant stop unless people treat them differently, Libras are very nice,loyal,friends that will STAY by your side once you are very close friends the first couple steps with a libra might be hard for them because they find it hard to talk to new people they would rather stay near someone they know, Yes the rumours are true 100% libras HATE being alone they cant stand it that they will either 1.turn it into emotions and cry because they are sensitive 2.they will either do anything to not be alone but if they get left alone with no one for a while they will begin to over think and trust NO ONE at all 3.sit there and think a lot about the situation, The bad side of a libra I already know they do lie but the main 3 reasons why is because 1.they dont want to be embarrassed 2.for there friendship they will lie 3.they will lie to stop anxiety and overthinking another big thing they might lie about is definitely emotions they will either not want to talk and say they are great when they are 100% not to stop people from thinking they are to sensitive or say they a great when they are not to make the other person not worry about them, If you have a libra friend and they are controlling then Im not sure what you can do but things what you should NOT do is 1.talk over them 2.if you yell at them or be aggressive in any way they will either fight back EXTREMELY HARD or cry because they feel like they are a bad person 3.dont tell them to stop crying and being emotional because it will make it worse also it will make them try not to cry that it hurts so much that they do cry what you should do is 1.be very positive and calm and tell them nice things the way to tell them they are doing the wrong thing is to speak very calmly and take it slowly and after make sure they are ok and engorge them to be positive, A libra Leo,Gemini and a Scorpio will go really bad it might be good but it will end up extremely bad but I hope this helped you just know that libras are full of emotions and love anywhere and everywhere. You will find that the following article will help you navigate your relationship when she is dealing with grief, doubt, or regret. Are looking for the meaning of life, the chronically lazy and manipulate the environment to work for them. Libras are a lot about words. When sadness tips that balance, they can fall over. on the rare times i could have a friend over she was sooo nice like she wanted them to like her. Pro Libra tip: let go of your high expectations and unreal fantasies, life will become a lot more easier. Libra men are sensitive. I'm not. They're short-tempered and needy and are prone to turning themselves into a martyr if they know it'll help their cause. In this, I am able to convince strangers or people not too close to me, to give into me or to do this for me. Libra loves to cooperate and is incredibly diplomatic, so she'll be right there with you throughout the entire apology making sure you both are on the same page. Yes, alot of these opinions are true but thats why they call them opinions, everyone has one. She wants to feel free and keep it light, turning away naturally from people whose characteristics feel too negative or intense for her. im living with a libra female and i am done with her trying to control my life.. wanting to have things go well with her guys. Often, they can feel hopeless, but they do try their best to stay happy and composed, if only to keep those around them happy. When charged with bad behavior, they will say, Oh, Im such a bad person. I guarantee there was as much yelling in his home as there is in every Libra home. She was not a perfect person, but she did help many, many people and was instrumental in laying the groundwork to raise consciousness from the 3rd to the 4th dimension. she physically, verbally, emotionally, and spiritually abused me as far back as i can remember. Because I can't see positive future at some point. Libras are the nicest people of all the signs until you rub us the wrong way. They seem cool, and often emotionless but often there's a storm of feelings inside. Libra's born with out an earth sign to ground them.are doomed to wander their life trying to find meaning and purpose while taking in the entire universe and not knowing what to do with any of it. Deciding to start a family is an exciting time. I wont bite ur head off lol. but in reality this plan has been prepared too much in advance. I have yet to find a Libra female who is willing to be a real friend instead of being jealous and gossipy. My advice is asking a scorpio why do they want this. What Libras actually need is just to find a stable ground they can hold onto when times are unsteady, what often becomes their SO or someone else who is very close. I love her like a sister. But my current partner said the same thing as the last guy that I was bipolar, vindictive, and crazy. Scorpio Ascendant, Venus and Mercury in Scorpio conjunct his Pluto in Scorpio which was in his 1st House. Mind & heart got twisted in and out 24/7 till I broke down entirely. Reason why they play games and betray the people closest to them. True Librans dont like conflict or ugliness. Because, my inability to cope with my emotions and disability to be alone should never weight others down. They are the true incarnations of the narcissists! I dont owe you a damn thing!!!!! This might take some time, but once you go to yourself first for consolation and try some introspection, you can learn how to manage your emotions around others and even figure out what makes you feel better in times of stress or sadness, helping you bounce back quicker and better than ever. They always try to be objective and rational, but they tend to be emotional and sensitive. Then he would get mad insanely mad when ignored. So don't take the (general) layout of the Libra to heart, it's only one sliver of what variations there can be about the Libra. and finally: I ADMIT I'm not perfection BUT try hurt my friends? Be Mysterious. Libras tend to bottle up their feelings for an extended amount of time and then explode, sometimes inappropriately. She may choose to focus her social and emotional energy on new relationships. Libra is one of the most balanced signs, but when depressed, they tend to have feelings of instability and moodiness, with a reduced urge to socialize. She should be recognized for this and given her Propers. Thank you. which was when i was very young. I know a few Libras. Often, they can feel hopeless, but they do try their best to stay happy and composed, if only to keep those around them happy. I had a long friendship/relationship with a Libra man ever since I was 15. I highly value: integrity, loyalty, honesty, and friendship. It took Libran baseball idol Mark McGwire (Oct. 1) five years to confess to using steroids. Not all Librans try to make it up to people, but I know a good portion of them out there do. Friendship and respect are a two-way street. Should she be pressed, then she may behave in a manner that removes herself from that person's presence. :( Bad ex maybe? This is not true ! By the way, those of you who had Libran parents that treated you like garbage, what's your sign? If she is pushed into a conversation, then she may try to avoid specific aspects of the conversation. she abused me because she didnt know any better. Mother problems? So I understood that he meant "when I try some sexual assault on him ". Am I going to take out all my frustrations on my wife and kids even???? I hate having fights in public. Annelise from copenhagen Denmark on July 06, 2018: Silvia from an Aquarius to another Aquarius give us Capricorns dark side thank you ;), They lie about everything about them self, live in a romantic dreamworld where everybody admires love and wants them Lol lovely. We can seem very listlessdifficult to make definitive decisions and standards that are near impossible to reach for those in our livesand the world in general. (Mr. Libra perceived that as "popular"). I dont think I'm fake or that im better than anyone bc the only perfect one is God and ive had a too messed up childhood to think im better than anyone, also being my father recently passed this year Feb 2019. Who knows. (hard to believe I know, aloof shits like us actually occasionally listen) It doesn't just dissappear. Im scorpio. Most good tennis players are Librans and are very bad losers. For the meaning of life, the controling, able to move from one relationship to another one I I... 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